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A lot of women say they want a good man

A man who is emotionally safe, present, generous, and consistent. And many of those women have done the work. They’ve broken their patterns. They’ve stopped chasing the unavailable. They’ve set better standards. But then something strange happens.

Dating

Being kind and being good are not the same thing

I was raised to be nice. I learned to listen, to give, to avoid conflict. I was polite. I didn’t raise my voice. I treated people with respect. And I thought that meant I was a good man.

Personal Growth