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Before we met each other, we had to unlearn a lotg Post

Both of us were drawn to chaos in past relationships. She told me that the men who made her heart race were always the ones who made her question if she was enough. She’d get hooked on their attention, waiting for a message, a signal, something to feel chosen again.

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Being kind and being good are not the same thing

I was raised to be nice. I learned to listen, to give, to avoid conflict. I was polite. I didn’t raise my voice. I treated people with respect. And I thought that meant I was a good man.

Personal Growth

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