she was often cynical about life and critical of herself and others. She said, “I’ve been doing a gratitude practice every day, writing down three things I’m grateful for. My mindset coach told me to do it.
took pride in it. I was the one people could count on, the one who showed up, helped, fixed, supported, carried. It made me feel valuable. Needed. Worthy.
In that image, I was the perfect man. I didn’t make mistakes, didn’t raise my voice, didn’t shut down or withdraw when things got hard. I thought if I became the perfect version of me, I would attract the perfect version of her.
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