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A lot of “conscious men” are just emotionally intelligent enough to justify their emotional unavailability

They’re meditating, self-regulating, journaling about how much they “feel,” while keeping one foot out the door.

Dating

There’s a type of man who can talk about healing

He’s read all the books. He’s been to all the workshops. He knows the language. But he still can’t sit in a real moment of discomfort without withdrawing, attacking, or spiritually bypassing.

Dating

Dating today can feel like emotional whiplash

New Blog Post DOne day you’re deep in conversation, the next it’s silence. He said he felt a connection, you shared something vulnerable, and now… nothing.escription

Dating

I’m learning more about her every day

What shaped her. What made her guard herself. What made her feel like she had to be strong for everyone else, all the time.

Relationships

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