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For a long time, I didn’t feel like a man

I could fight. I could make money. I could impress women. But none of that made me feel like a man. Not in the way that mattered. Not in the way that brings peace when I was lying in bed with my own thoughts at night.

Personal Growth

A lot of women say they want a good man

A man who is emotionally safe, present, generous, and consistent. And many of those women have done the work. They’ve broken their patterns. They’ve stopped chasing the unavailable. They’ve set better standards. But then something strange happens.

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