Remember what it felt like when they couldn't keep their eyes off you? When a text from them lifted your whole afternoon? That feeling has a way back, and it takes thirty days.
It was never the dinners or the holidays. It was smaller than that, and bigger.
Being looked at, properly, by the person who chose you. A hand that reaches for yours without a reason. Laughing at something nobody else would find funny. Feeling wanted in your own kitchen on an ordinary Tuesday. Knowing that when you walk in the door, someone's day just got better.
I've watched it come back in couples who were certain it was gone for good, and it rarely takes as long as they feared.
Thirty days from now, you could be falling asleep next to someone you're in love with. Again.
1 month was enough to work through the biggest road blocks and see things we would never have seen by ourselves. It had a direct impact on how we met each other and the quality of our conversations. A complete rewiring of our nervous system.
This is what couples tell me happens. Most go through these 4 stages in this order.
Typical costs. They vary by country.
Jan-Willem has the sensitivity, the heart warmth, the energetic wisdom and the masculine stability we needed to create a fully available, profoundly healthy way of relating to each other on an intimate level. We simply didn’t have that.
You can know all 10 secrets and still spend tonight on your phones. You feel the click, you mean it, and a month later the evenings look the same.
Do all 30 days and have your free call with me. If you have not fallen back in love, tell me on the call and I will refund the full €77. No forms and no arguments.
Everything arrives by email straight away and is yours to keep. See Terms.
Then you get your money back. Do all 30 days and have your free call with me. If you have not fallen back in love, tell me on the call and I will refund the full €77. No forms and no arguments.
Start your track anyway. It works from one side, because what you do lands whether or not they are doing theirs. Give them their track and leave it with them. Most reluctant partners open it in week 1 or 2, because something in the house has changed and they want to know what.
About 15 minutes a day each, and 20 minutes on the first night to read the start document together. A few days take an evening, and you will know about those in advance.
It is the same 10 secrets, turned into one thing to do each day, in order, for 30 days, with a separate track for each of you. The ebook tells you what works. The challenge makes sure you do it on a tired Tuesday.
Do the next day. Never go back to day 1. More couples give up because they missed a day than because the work was hard, so the challenge is built to carry on from wherever you are.
You find out what the other one has been doing all month. I keep the details for people who start, because not knowing is part of what makes it work. Couples describe it as one of the best evenings of their relationship.
No. It is a structured month of small daily actions. If you do not feel safe at home, or there is an affair or addiction nobody is dealing with, see a professional first.
You keep the practices that worked, and the last document tells you which ones. Then you book your free 30 minute call with me, the 2 of you together, to look at what comes next. There is nothing to buy on the call.
Yes. Message me on WhatsApp on +61 424 511 173. I read every message myself.
15 minutes a day each. One small thing, written out for you. The couples who feel it again are the ones who did the 30 small days.