Somewhere along the way, people started treating love like a fantasy genre. They romanticized romance. So much so that they stopped falling in love with each other, and started falling in love with the idea of each other.
When a man is in his own process, navigating something heavy, focused on building, or simply needing to breathe, he naturally turns inward. It’s self regulation. It’s a form of self care. His system seeks clarity in solitude, stillness, or movement, alone.
They’re meditating, self-regulating, journaling about how much they “feel,” while keeping one foot out the door.
He’s read all the books. He’s been to all the workshops. He knows the language. But he still can’t sit in a real moment of discomfort without withdrawing, attacking, or spiritually bypassing.
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