There are men men who poured it on thick in the first weeks of dating.
Flowers, constant texts, big declarations of love, planning the future before you even finished your first bottle of wine together.
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I used to think being a giver made me a good man.
took pride in it. I was the one people could count on, the one who showed up, helped, fixed, supported, carried. It made me feel valuable. Needed. Worthy.
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Sometimes women ask me, “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic men?”
And the truth is, those men aren’t drawn only to you. They go to every woman. They cast wide nets.
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A lot of women say they want a good man
A man who is emotionally safe, present, generous, and consistent. And many of those women have done the work. They’ve broken their patterns. They’ve stopped chasing the unavailable. They’ve set better standards. But then something strange happens.
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