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Men are problem fixers. It’s how we’re wired.

When a woman we love comes to us with something heavy on her heart, our instinct is to solve it.

Men

I used to think being a giver made me a good man.

took pride in it. I was the one people could count on, the one who showed up, helped, fixed, supported, carried. It made me feel valuable. Needed. Worthy.

DatingMen

Most men think women and romance are complicated

Well, here is a simple checklist that might make little sense to you, but makes her feel loved, supported, and safe.

WomenMen

What he says vs. what he actually means

I wrote this because to many women internalize these phrases and make them about their worth, when in truth, they reveal his own limitations

Men

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