I’ll never forget a conversation I once had with a mentor of mine.
He looked at me and said, “If you want an idea to come alive, put it in the mind of a woman who loves you.”
Relationships
He looked at me and said, “If you want an idea to come alive, put it in the mind of a woman who loves you.”
Ten, sometimes fifteen years of giving, fixing, explaining, forgiving, and hoping he’d finally see them. They stuck to him like glue.
Not because marriage automatically makes you rich, but because partnership, when it’s right, transforms the way a man moves through life.
When she points something out, it lands as an attack. He feels judged, disrespected, or even emasculated. But what he doesn’t realize is that her words come from care. She’s trying to make things better, to feel safer, to connect more deeply.

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