I’ll never forget a conversation I once had with a mentor of mine.
He looked at me and said, “If you want an idea to come alive, put it in the mind of a woman who loves you.”
He looked at me and said, “If you want an idea to come alive, put it in the mind of a woman who loves you.”
Her boyfriend’s birthday was coming up and she wanted to do something special for him. “I don’t want to just buy him another gift because I never know what to get him” she said. “I want to do something that makes him feel loved. But when I asked him what he wanted, he just shrugged and said he is fine, that I he doesn’t need anything.”
When a woman we love comes to us with something heavy on her heart, our instinct is to solve it.
Flowers, constant texts, big declarations of love, planning the future before you even finished your first bottle of wine together.

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