You want a man to love you more than the last woman he dated?
Show interest in his hobby, the one you have 0 interest in.
Study it. Share facts. Ask questions.
He'll marry you the next day.
I know because of my wife. I was reading a book about dragons. She doesn't care about dragons, at all. But she asked me about the book. She asked about the story, and about the characters, and about why I liked it. Her questions showed she'd been listening.
She didn't care about dragons. She cared about me.
I felt it before I could explain it. It meant she was curious about what goes on inside me, even in the parts that have nothing to do with her. That's what I felt in that moment.
I cried.
It surprised me completely. I was a man who'd led circles of men and talked about feeling for 8 years. I didn't expect to be sobbing on a tuesday evening by questions about a dragon book.
I think many men are waiting for exactly this.
Someone who wants to know what they love and why.
I still remember that day as a turning pointing on our relationship.
