I trick my wife into sleeping with me whenever I want

I ask how her day was and I actually listen

I do the thing she mentioned without being asked twice

I touch her without it going anywhere

I tell her she looks beautiful and sexy and I mean it

I handle something hard so she doesn't have to

I show up on time and when I said I was going to

I remember what she told me last week, month and year before

I apologise when I'm wrong and I don't drag it out into a negotiation

I stay in the room when the conversation gets uncomfortable

I make her feel like she's never doing life alone

And a few other small things like being completely devotional in making her feel loved, seen, held, understood and cared for.