Most women will tell you they want a partner. Equal footing. Someone who listens and considers and collaborates
Then they sleep with the man who doesn't ask.
I'm not talking about control or dominance. I'm talking about the guy who decides where dinner is without a group text. Who books the trip. Who says "we're doing this" and she exhales because for once she doesn't have to carry it.
A client told me last week her husband asks her opinion on everything. What to wear. Whether to take the meeting. If he should go to the gym. She said it with exhaustion in her voice, not gratitude.
She married a man. Now she's managing one.
Feminine energy moves toward masculine certainty.
Certainty.
The kind that comes from a man who knows himself well enough that her mood doesn't erase his direction.
When you defer every choice to her, you're not being considerate. You're handing her a burden she didn't sign up for.
She doesn't want to be in charge of you.
She wants to trust that you're in charge of yourself.
