I’ll never forget a conversation I once had with a mentor of mine.
He looked at me and said, “If you want an idea to come alive, put it in the mind of a woman who loves you.”
Relationships
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A woman I started working with told me
she was often cynical about life and critical of herself and others. She said, “I’ve been doing a gratitude practice every day, writing down three things I’m grateful for. My mindset coach told me to do it.
Personal Growth
I’ve noticed a very distinct difference between the men and women I coach 1:1
Men hardly ever text between sessions, even though it’s included. I’ll literally set “ask for support” as homework, and still, radio silence. They’ll sit with something for days, trying to figure it out alone, until the next call.
Coaching
I used to think being a giver made me a good man.
took pride in it. I was the one people could count on, the one who showed up, helped, fixed, supported, carried. It made me feel valuable. Needed. Worthy.
DatingMen
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