Some of the women I’ve worked with have stayed with men who treated them terribly for years.
Ten, sometimes fifteen years of giving, fixing, explaining, forgiving, and hoping he’d finally see them. They stuck to him like glue.
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I’ve noticed a very distinct difference between the men and women I coach 1:1
Men hardly ever text between sessions, even though it’s included. I’ll literally set “ask for support” as homework, and still, radio silence. They’ll sit with something for days, trying to figure it out alone, until the next call.
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Sometimes women ask me, “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic men?”
And the truth is, those men aren’t drawn only to you. They go to every woman. They cast wide nets.
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A lot of women say they want a good man
A man who is emotionally safe, present, generous, and consistent. And many of those women have done the work. They’ve broken their patterns. They’ve stopped chasing the unavailable. They’ve set better standards. But then something strange happens.
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