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There are men men who poured it on thick in the first weeks of dating.

Flowers, constant texts, big declarations of love, planning the future before you even finished your first bottle of wine together.

Dating

I’ve noticed a very distinct difference between the men and women I coach 1:1

Men hardly ever text between sessions, even though it’s included. I’ll literally set “ask for support” as homework, and still, radio silence. They’ll sit with something for days, trying to figure it out alone, until the next call.

Coaching

Sometimes women ask me, “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic men?”

And the truth is, those men aren’t drawn only to you. They go to every woman. They cast wide nets.

RelationshipsDating

A good man won’t stay where he can’t win

When I was dating, I started noticing a clear pattern. There were two types of women. And I always wanted to find out, very early on, which one I was sitting across from.

Dating

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