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Before we met each other, we had to unlearn a lotg Post

Both of us were drawn to chaos in past relationships. She told me that the men who made her heart race were always the ones who made her question if she was enough. She’d get hooked on their attention, waiting for a message, a signal, something to feel chosen again.

Personal Growth

A lot of “conscious men” are just emotionally intelligent enough to justify their emotional unavailability

They’re meditating, self-regulating, journaling about how much they “feel,” while keeping one foot out the door.

Dating

There’s a type of man who can talk about healing

He’s read all the books. He’s been to all the workshops. He knows the language. But he still can’t sit in a real moment of discomfort without withdrawing, attacking, or spiritually bypassing.

Dating

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